My oldest daughter is not talking to me. I don't know why not - I have a few guesses, all of which make her the selfish one. If non of my speculations are true, then I am responsible, but she won't tell me what I did. I don't think I did anything, in fact, I think she is expecting something from me that I cannot, and don't have to, give.
It's all about boundaries. I believe she has none, or they aren't very high and she expects the same from me, however, my boundaries are 8 feet tall and bullet proof. She doesn't understand that I would have boundaries where she is concerned and she's getting tired of trying to knock them down. I don't know what to do and I'm getting mad at her for screwing things up.